Social Currency in Everyday Life

"Face" isn’t vanity—it’s social dignity. Losing or gaining miànzi impacts relationships deeply.

How It Works:

• Giving Face: Praising someone publicly; accepting gifts graciously.

• Losing Face: Criticizing others openly; refusing requests harshly.

• Saving Face: Offering polite excuses to avoid embarrassment.

Example:
Declining an invitation? Say "I have a conflict" (保护面子, bǎohù miànzi—"protecting face") instead of "I don’t want to."

Why It Matters:
In business or family settings, respecting miànzi builds trust. Ignoring it can end partnerships!